If you want to work with me, it’s always best to reach out by email at coffeeandkink69 (at) gmail (dot) com and we can discuss your requirements and how I might be able to help. Below I’ve included answers to the most common queries.
Can I advertise on your site?
Sure, as long as you have a product or service I can stand behind. Email me at coffeeandkink69 (at) gmail (dot) com and we’ll talk. I can tailor placement and level of exposure to suit your product and budget.
Do you want to join my affiliate programme?
Maybe! I work with a small number of affiliate companies whose products and services I love. In general, I’m looking for sex-positive, inclusive companies with sound ethics to work with, so if this is you, hit me up.
Do you do sponsored posts?
Yes, but all sponsored content is written by me. I do not take pre-written content and host it on my site. Please note I will only accept sponsorship from companies/products I can stand behind.
Will you review my toy/book/product?
Absolutely! Email me and I’ll tell you where to send the product to. I do charge a small fee for reviews because, much as I love free stuff, I can’t pay my rent in sex toys. Commissioning a review doesn’t mean it is guaranteed to be gushing or even positive, but I can promise to be fair, unbiased, knowledgable and generally inclined towards looking for as many good points as I can.
Please note I do not test or review body-unsafe toys, lubes etc., and my say on what counts as safe is final. My vulva, my rules. #SorryNotSorry.
Can I commission you to write something for me?
Absolutely! Email me a brief outline, required word count and deadline and I’ll see what I can do and get back to you as soon as possible. And if you want something that’s out of my area of knowledge, I can probably recommend you someone else.
Will you write something for me for free?
No, unless you’re:
A) A charity/cause I strongly believe in
B) A good friend and we’re trading, or
C) So incredibly high-profile that the exposure alone is worth it. Actually, if you’re really that high-profile, you can afford to pay me.
Will you write a bespoke smutty story for me/my partner?
Sure! Email me for a no-obligation quote.
Can I reprint your post on [X] on my blog/website/magazine?
Yes, as long as your platform is one I’m happy with, but you’ll need to pay me for it. Email for rates.
Can I quote something you wrote/said/tweeted?
Yes, with full credit and a link back to my site, quoting a few lines is fine. Using more than a paragraph or so will require express permission and probably payment, as outlined above.
Will you speak at my event?
Maybe. Send me the details and I’ll see what I can do. My bar for what I will support is quite high and my privacy is important to me so I will need to be sure your event is inclusive, sex-positive and has a sound photography (or lack thereof) policy. I’ll also expect travel expenses, accommodation and free entry as a minimum.
Will you fuck me/scene with me/cam with me/send me pictures?